Friday, July 21, 2006

Welcome Home Mommy

Well.. Friday has come and gone, and my one week experiment in single parenting has come to an end. Laural is back from Calgary, safe and sound. As a father, this week has been an increadible learning and bonding experiance. This week I have:
  • Cleaned "Dora the Explorer" tomato pasta from our sofa, floor, carpet, chair & walls.
  • Calmed Matty down from two nightmares, one of which apparently contained both cars AND trains.
  • Watched Matty attempt to ride that shiny new Vespa in the parking garage.
  • Discoverd that Matty really (REALLY) enjoys the music of Amy Grant, to which he cannot fall asleep without listening to now. (I think Mommy had a part in this, playing this same tape at bedtime to Matty when he was younger)
  • Found out what it really feels like to be the most important part of a childs life (temporaraly of course, as Mommy is now home again...)
Overall, I feel that it was a great week. Matthew and I got along great, the house stayed clean, I even unpacked and rearranged the bedroom as a surprise to Laural on her return. I did every single piece of laundry I could find, and even put it away. Crazy I know! But without my domestic goddess by my side, it was either sink or swim. I felt like swimming. ;)

Seeing Laural at the gate after 5 days of absence was emotionally difficult for me. On one hand, I was saddened that my week of 'one on one' time with my son had come to an end. On the other, I had to fight back tears of joy that my beautiful wife and partner would soon be in my arms again. It was great to come home, put on a pot of coffee, eat some popcorn, and get all the awesome details of her trip. Things feel 'right' once more, and I'll finally be able to get a full nights sleep again.

The next few weeks should prove interesting. We'll be moving back to Laurals parents home for the next two weeks, as Matthews daycare is closed for summer break. I begin councelling for stress and depression. Of course, on top of that is everything else.. Crazy.. Just plain crazy...

2 comments:

Laural Dawn said...

I missed you too!
And I love the new bedroom design. I was so proud of you for doing so well. Matty was happy and I came home to a clean house... Awesome!
Next time I go away it will be to somewhere warm and relaxing - not for work. Oh, and I think I will bring you!

Unknown said...

That is a very sweet post--you sound like an amazing father and husband!
Amanda
http://mommydiarytales.blogspot.com